Friday, October 29, 2021

Bye For Now, Mom

 


Very sadly…

my mother has passed, 




but I take comfort in knowing she is reunited with my Dad, 

who passed 4 years earlier.


And I can only imagine their reunion…


“Alice, my darling Alice May,  I have missed you so. 

It feels so good to hug you again. 

A lot of our dear friends and family are here.  

They look forward to seeing you and we all have the biggest party planned.


I think you are gonna like our new home.  

It truly is a slice of heaven.  

After all our moves through the years, 

this final resting place couldn't be more perfect.  

Feel free to rearrange the furniture…

I know how much you like to do that. 

And guess what, my back doesn’t hurt anymore so I can help you.


I’ve missed you over the past 4 years, 

but happy you had time to be with our family. 

Our 4 children, 4 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren 

are our greatest pride





and I'm glad you could enjoy good times with them.
You will see how terribly sad they are now 
that you are no longer with them 

and 

you will feel the depth of their love for you.  

Over time, they will be able to think of you without crying.


You will find that you have no memory issues here.  

Your memory is now sharp as a tack so  

you will easily remember names, things, and places.

All of your memories will be crystal clear...

memories of fun with your family and friends... 

your mom playing the piano,  

days at Bacon Acres, swimming in Lake Champlain,

moving around the states/world with our family. 

You will remember it all.


Your hearing and vision will be perfect 

and 

you’ll have enough energy to do whatever you want.  

I look forward to cutting a rug with you like the good ol' days.


Age means nothing here.  We have eternal life.  

And you won’t feel any pain at all.  

Pain, suffering and worry are gone forever.


Alice, my darling Alice May, 

take my hand…

here we go."



Anywhooo….


As much as I have missed my Father and now my dear sweet Mother…

knowing that they are together in the Kingdom of Heaven brings me comfort.  



Our time here is finite, 

but we live forever 

in the hearts and minds of those who love us.  


It’s been hard to say goodbye to my mom…

the woman who brought me into this world 

and loved me

 and my brother and sisters wholeheartedly.  


That’s the thing about true love.

True love hurts.  


Bye for now, Mom.


“Bye for now”…

the way my mom would say goodbye to me.



3 comments:

Well London Blitz Diaries said...

I am so sorry for this incredible loss to all of you. What a beautiful tribute to her. I dread the day I lose my mom. True love does hurt. My thoughts are with you and your mom.

Jane Nash said...

Dear Kathy, Steve, Jayne, Michelle, and Families,

Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful Mother. She was such a loving, caring, kind, and generous lady who touched so many lives in a positive way. I will always have the fondest memories of living next door while my father was stationed at Wheelus AFB. I remember all of the good times that we shared and all of the fun that we had with our families. Your parents were amazing and will forever be a part of those hearts they touched, including mine. God bless your sweet Mother, and may she Rest In Eternal Peace. May the many happy memories you shared live on forever. God bless you all during this difficult time of loss.

Thinking of you all and sending my love and prayers.

With deepest sympathy and respect,

Jane Thomas Nash

Jayne said...

Kathy this is so sweet...I cried through the whole thing but I know someday I will see them again. Thanks for writing such a beautiful tribute to Mom and Dad. I love you